Health & Wellbeing guide

Get mental health help for your child or teenager

Spot when your child needs more support, talk to them, and find help through school, your GP and children's mental health services, including in a crisis.

Estimated time: 30–60 minutes to plan first stepsUpdated: 2 October 2026

Use this guide if your child or teenager seems persistently low, anxious, withdrawn or not themselves, and you are not sure where to turn. Have a few notes on what you have noticed and when it started; if your child is at immediate risk of harm, call 999 or go to A&E now.

Step by step

  1. Notice and note what has changed

    Write down changes you have seen over the past few weeks, such as sleep, eating, school attendance, friendships, mood, irritability or giving up things they enjoyed. Note how long it has been going on and anything that may have triggered it, such as exams, bullying, a loss or online worries. This record helps you, the school and the GP see the pattern rather than one bad day.

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