Use this guide if you want a small or simple ceremony, from a register office signing with two witnesses to an intimate gathering. Have both partners' ID, proof of address and a rough budget and date range ready.
Step by step
Agree your priorities and budget
Sit down together and list the three things that matter most, such as who is there, the place, the food or the photos. Set a total budget and a guest number, as these two decisions shape everything else. Ask: 'If we could only keep three things, what would they be?' and plan around the answer.
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