Money guide

Separate your finances after a relationship ends

Protect shared accounts, split bills and debts, break the financial link on your credit file and know where to get help sorting out money after a breakup.

Estimated time: 1–2 hours to start, then follow-ups over several weeksUpdated: 1 October 2026

Use this guide soon after you and a partner separate, whether you were married, in a civil partnership or living together. You need a list of joint accounts, bills, debts and any property or savings you share. This guide covers the practical steps; for dividing property, pensions or child maintenance, get legal or specialist advice.

Step by step

  1. Make a list of everything shared

    Write down every joint bank account, credit card, loan, overdraft, mortgage, tenancy, utility, broadband, phone contract, insurance policy and subscription, with who is named on it and how it is paid. Add savings, pensions and valuables you both contributed to. This list will be the basis for every conversation and decision that follows.

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